Wednesday, March 7, 2007

QUILT SQUARES # 30 & 31


QUILT SQUARE # 30

This really cut soft flannel print with ladybugs and butterflies came from Cathy, a friend from work, and her daughter Sarah. Her wish page says, "The Joy of a Child, Welcome Ava Grace"





This is a little lady bug purse...Emilie, my official ladybug apparel scouter send this along with her fabric square and good wish page...thanks Em!

Quilt Square # 31

This fabric square was sent by my friend Cathy's daughter, Emilie(my official ladybug apparel scouter!). Her wish page reads: "To the world you may be one person , but to one person you may be the world"

Saturday, March 3, 2007

THE ULTIMATE BLOG PARTY INTRODUCTION

The Blog Party over at 5 Minutes for Mom started yesterday. So come and join the Party. Make a post on your blog and go over to 5 Minutes for Mom and sign in, go blog hopping and see who you can meet.

Let me introduce myself...I am a single Mom to be...in the process of adopting my daughter Ava from Inner Mongolia, China. Here are a few pictures of my sweetie! I'd also like to introduce my "Fur Daughters", Jessie(Yellow Lab) and Abbey(Black Lab).

I am an RN with a background in ICU/PACU nursing and started this blog so family and friends could follow my journey to adopt my daughter Ava.












THE ULTIMATE BLOG PARTY!



The Ultimate Blog Party is being hosted by "5Minutes for Mom" and runs from March 2-9nth. If you haven't been there yet...be sure to visit...you could meet a whole lot of new blogger friends! Party On!

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

INVITATION TO PARTICIPATE IN AVA'S "100 GOOD WISHES QUILT"



I am extending an invitation to all of my family, friends, fellow bloggers and blog followers to participate in building my daughter Ava's "100 Good Wishes Quilt."

To welcome and celebrate a new life, there is a tradition in the Northern part of China to make a Bai Jia Bei, or a "100 Good Wishes Quilt". In China these quilts were originally made from garments of family and friends, which would surround the child with blessings. The custom is to invite 100 people to contribute a single square patch of cloth and a cloth scrap. The 100 patches are then sewn together to make the quilt of blessings. The little cloth scrap goes into a memory book with the wish or blessing.

The fabric you choose can be anything, it can be a piece of old clothing, a print that has some significance to you, ie: a sports team, favorite flower, favorite colour etc. The patch of fabric needs to be 12x12 inches. Then write a blessing or good wish to Ava on a piece of paper no more than 10x10 and include a scrap piece of the same fabric on the good wishes page. Now for the blessing page you can write something yourself, write a quote, poem, lyrics from a song you like etc. For you scrapbooking people you can get as fancy as you like or keep it as simple as you like.Please sign your name to good wishes page.One day Ava will be able to read her 100 Good Wishes Book and see how many people love her and were waiting for her arrival.

Anyone who would like to participate just leave me a message in the comments section at the bottom of this post with your email address and I will email you my address.

I would like to thank those of you who have already contributed a patch of fabric and a good wish page for Ava...she will so enjoy her quilt and reading all the good wishes and blessings.

Liz

Monday, February 26, 2007

PARCELS IN THE MAIL TODAY!!

I received a package in the mail today containing these signing dvd's and a cd of signing songs for Ava from my very good friend, Mary from Pickering, Ontario. I first saw these signing dvd's on another bloggers blog that I follow...her daughter Eliza was already signing at about 10months old and she was using these dvds to teach her. When Mary asked me what I needed for Ava I thought of these dvd's and voila...here they are! I can't wait to view them myself. Thanks so much Mary.

















I've been meaning to pick up a little something for Ava to put away as a present for CNY....was browsing through the gift shop at work today and this Robert Munsch book caught my eye...being the "YEAR OF THE PIG" and all...I had to get it.

Thursday, February 22, 2007

THIS ONE'S FOR YOU SUE!


I posted a picture of this pillow with the Fu character earlier....but I didn't know that the manderin word for "upside down" is dao, which is a homonym for "arrives". So for maximum good luck, at the Lunar New Year Chinese families display the Fu character upside down within their houses.
I have now turned my pillow upside down!(thanks for the tip Sue)

QUILT SQARE # 28 & 29


QUILT PATCH # 28

This fabric and good wish page was sent by Mark, my cousin Joanne's son. I'm sure this fabric depicts what every kid wishes to hear their school announce!



QUILT SQUARE # 29

This fabric square was sent by Hunter, my cousin Joanne's son. It is a bright purple fabric with sparkly bits scattered throughout it. Ava will love it!

MORE FABRIC SQUARES ARRIVE TODAY!

This fabric sqare was sent by my cousin Joanne and her family from Beachburg Ontario. It is a very "CANADIAN" piece of fabric depicting our countries flag and our tradional sport, hockey!. On her blessing page she included a poem called, "Waiting".
WAITING

I haven't met you yet or seen your face
but in my heart you hold a place.
My hopes grow with each passing day
even though you're miles away
I know your're there waiting for me
as I am here waiting to see,
the child God has sent from above
to make me a mother
and share all my Love.
Love Shawn, Joanne, Hunter and Mark.

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

QUILT SQUARE # 26



I received this fabric sqare and best wish page in the mail today. It was sent by Sue from Ottawa, another adoptive parent waiting to adopt her son from Inner Mongolia. She sent a very vibrant piece of fabric showing women and children dancing. She included the lyrics from LeeAnn Womack's song, "I hope you Dance". She goes on to say that during the adoption of her first daughter from Vietnam they would always hear this song whenever doing anything connected to the adoption and then went on to realize that the lyrics of the song describe their wishes for their daughter. Ava's first fabric square and good wish were made by myself and I too had picked part of the lyrics from this same song...I find it so cool that both mom's to be of Inner Mongolia children had the same wish picked out. Thank you, Sue
p.s.-hopefully we get our TA's at around the same time and can travel together.

LOTUS FLOWER PICTURE FOR AVA


LOTUS FLOWER
I bought this picture for Ava's room when I was at the Pacific Mall today. Ava's chinese name is YaHan...the Han part of it meaning Lotus.

Monday, February 19, 2007

GIFTS FOR AVA



My sister sent these childrens cd's for Ava. They are a collection of world lullabies and soothing songs. I'm sure Ava will love them. Thanks, Cathy.

Sunday, February 18, 2007

CHINESE NEW YEAR WITH FRIENDS


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CHINESE NEW YEAR LION DANCE!


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CHINESE NEW YEAR DAY

Celebrating Chinese New Year with Friends

On Chinese New Year Day Sherri, her family and I went into Toronto to the CNE grounds to the Chinese New Year celebrations . We took in a show consisting of the Traditional Lion Dance, as well as several different and very talented displays of the Martial Arts. I have included a clip of the dragon dance. We toured around taking in the different displays of the chinese culture. I bought several beautiful chinese outfits for Ava and Shauna got a strikingly beautiful chinese top which she models in the slide show of pictures from today. After trying out a wide variety of authentic Chinese Cuisine and not doing too well with the "chop stick" part of it we all came home with our own pair of painted chop sticks to practice with. We tryed many different dishes, including several noodle dishes, a couple different dumpling dishes, a seaweed dish, a sticky rice and pork dish wrapped in tea leaves(delicious!), pork and chicken dishes as well as an egg dessert that is deep fryed and almost tastes like sponge cake. We also tryed deep fryed shrimp chips and for dessert something called dragons beard candy....sort of like cotton candy clumps with crushed almonds in the center(very sugary).

When we arrived home it was still early, around 4pm so Sherri invited me over for dinner. They dropped me off at my house so I could feed the dogs and then headed over to the Palmer residence for dinner. When I got there Sherri presented me with a beautiful bouquet of red roses...she said they are for my house as everyone is supposed to have fresh flowers in the house over the Chinese New Year as it is a symbol of growth or rebirth....how thoughtful is this girl!!!....another reason I asked her to accompany me to China to get my daughter. She also stopped at the store on the way home and picked up a cake and had "Happy Chinese New Year" written on it.

Sherri's daughter Shauna who is just 10 years old has embraced the opportunity to be part of the Chinese culture and learn whatever she can about it. As you can see in the slideshow of pictures she has decorated her room with hanging chinese lanterns, her chinese lantern that lights up that she got at the chinese lantern festival in the fall as well as her chinese umbrella. Today while in Toronto she added to her collection, several pig ornaments as it is the year of the pig. While waiting for dinner to be ready we went on the computor and looked up the history of the chinese zodiac and what animal year each of us was born in...Shauna was the year of the Ox.

Not only did she show a keen interest on the Sunday while in Toronto but on Monday morning she wore her new Chinese top to school and addressed the teacher with "Gong Xi Fa Cai"....and when the teacher asked her what that meant and Shauna told her she asked Shauna to stand in front of the class and share with them all about Chinese New Year and everything she has experienced.

I feel very blessed to have such good friends that take such an interest in my daughters culture and want to share it with me and be a part of Ava's life. Shauna, you will make a great surrogate jie jie(older sister) to Ava!

GONG XI FA CAI



Wishing you a Happy and Prosperous New Year!

Saturday, February 17, 2007

"FU" CHARACTER


THE "FU" CHARACTER
This chinese character(Fu) represents luck, good fortune, and blessing. The Fu character is very popular in China, appearing over door ways and on walls, especially during the Chinese New Year.
I purchased two pillow slip covers with the Fu character on them to decorate for Chinese New Year.

PACIFIC MALL-MARKAM


Posters of Chinese Blessings on Red Paper
are hung in the windows or on each side of the
front door of Chinese homes to decorate for Chinese
New Year.

Chinese New Year depicting firecrackers-
is a symbol of good fortune.


Bought this string of Chinese Lanterns that light
up to decorate the house.


Scenes from Pacific Mall on eve of New Years Day


Taking in the Chinese Culture at the Pacific Mall
Food Court.


Sample of beautiful Chinese Garments



Chinese Lantern decorating the Mall


More Chinese Lantern Decorations


Chinese Lion Decoration in Pacific Mall




Sherri at Pacific Mall


Me at Pacific Mall


Me at Pacific Mall

On Saturday February 17th, the eve of Chinese New Year, Sherri and I ventured out to the Pacific Mall in Markam. It is the largest indoor Asian Mall in North America. We immersed ourselves in the Chinese Culture, shopping along side the large Toronto Chinese population, buying decorations for Chinese New Year and eating at an authentic Chinese restaraunt. We practiced our limited Mandarin by wishing anyone who would listen a "Gong Xi Fa Cai". We also bought chinese lucky candy and chocolate gold coins to put in the Chinese New Year red envelopes that are given out to children for good luck in the new year.

Thursday, February 15, 2007

ALL ABOUT CHINESE NEW YEAR....AND YEAR OF THE PIG



Chinese New Year is the largest and most important celebration in the Chinese Calender. This year the Chinese New Year begins on February 18, 2007. The Chinese use the lunar calender, with each month starting on the darkest day or new moon. It is tradition for New Year festivities to start on the first day of the month and carry on until the 15th day when the moon is full or brightest.

The fifteen day celebration of the Chinese New Year:

On the first day they welcome the Gods of the Heavens and Earth. Many abstain from eating meat as they believe it will ensure long and happy lives.
On the second day they pray to ancestors and gods, they feed and treat their dogs well as they believe this is the birthday of all dogs.
On the third and fourth days son in laws pay respect to their parent in laws.
On the fifth day people stay at home and welcome the God of Wealth. No visiting takes place as it will bring bad luck.
On the sixth to tenth day visiting of relatives and friends is done freely. Temples are visited and prayers are said for good fortune and health.
On the seventh day farmers make a drink from seven vegetables to celebrate their produce. This is also considered the birthday of all human beings. They eat noodles to promote longevity and eat raw fish for success.
On the eighth day there are more family dinners and prayers to Tian Gong, the god of Heaven.
On the ninth day offerings are made to the Jade Emperor.
On the tenth to twelveth day friends and relatives come for dinner.
On the thirteenth day, after much feasting, to cleanse the system simple rice congee and mustard greens are eaten.
The fourteenth day is used in preparation to celebrate the Lantern Festival on the fifteenth night.

For weeks prior to the New Year people will take time off work to decorate and prepare for the celebration of the New Year.

Legend has it that Buddha asked all the animals to join him on Chinese New Year. Twelve came and he named a year after each. The twelve animals include, the rat, the ox, the tiger, the rabbit, the dragon, the snake, the horse, the sheep, the monkey, the rooster, the dog and the pig.
He stated that people born in that year would resemble the animals personality. People born in the year of the Pig work very hard, have excellent manners, are loyal friends and enjoy luxuries.

For Chinese New Year festivities people wear red clothes, decorate their homes with poems written on red paper, and give "lucky money" in red envelopes. Red is said to symbolize fire, according to legend it drives away bad luck. Fireworks help ward away evil spirits.
Live blooming plants represent rebirth and new growth.

In China, the Chinese New Year is a time when families travel back home to be with their loved ones, they gather at each others houses for visits and to share meals, especially the feast on New Years Eve. New Years Eve and New Years Day are celebrated as a family affair, a time of reunion and thanksgiving.

On New Years Day the Chinese family will eat a vegetarian dish called Jai, whole fish to represent togetherness and abundance and a chicken for prosperity. The chicken must be intact with its head, tail and feet to symbolize completeness. Any noodles should not be cut as they represent long life. Nian Gao(sweet steamed glutinous rice pudding) and Zong Zi(glutinous rice wrapped in reed leaves) are favorites in the South of China while steamed wheat bread(Man Tou) and small meat dumplings are the prefered food in the North.

The Lantern Festival occures on the 15th day to signify the end of Chinese New Year. The lanterns are painted with birds, flowers, animals, zodiac signs as well as scenes depictings legends and history. These lanterns are hung in temples and carried in the streets under the brightness of the full moon on the 15th night.

Often the highlight of the Lantern Festival is the Dragon dance. The dragon is usually made of silk, paper and bamboo and is held above the heads of men as they dance and guide this colourful dragon through the streets.


CHINESE NEW YEAR DECORATIONS

Chinese New Year is this sunday, February 18th. Here are some pictures of people in China decorating and getting ready for the festivities.
Not sure if it will be as colourful and decorative as this but I'm planning to head into Markam and Toronto this weekend with friends to partake in Chinese New Year events planned for there.









Wednesday, February 14, 2007

ONE QUARTER THE WAY....AVA'S 25TH QUILT SQUARE!

Well Ava, we are one quarter the way to collecting 100 quilt patches for your "100 Good Wishes Quilt". This beautiful green and red asian print fabric was given by Wilma, a friend from work. For her blessing page she did a unique design...she quilted it!...a stiking design of an asian girl, and she signed the back of it "For Ava Grace Yahan, to Welcome You"

"LADYBUG CHOCOLATES....WHAT NEXT!"


AVA'S HOLD ON MOMMY'S HEART


My sweet Ava, you will aways have a hold on my heart...just remember you did not grow under my heart but in it!
When I saw this cuddley soft pink heart it made me think of the place you have in my heart.
Happy Valentine's Day Ava!
Love Mommy.
XOXO